.humanity=gone.

Believe in SUPER ULTRA ignorant peeps? No, you don't ? Read this link.
http://www.kosmo.com.my/kosmo/content.asp?y=2009&dt=0805&pub=Kosmo&sec=Negara&pg=ne_02.htm

Bukan setakat ignorant, ini baru tahap bodoh. Bagi makan anjing kurap pun bagus. Dah lah sendiri punya salah, buat tak nak tanggung bila dapat balasan. Ni pegi buang macam sampah. Tu kan makhluk Tuhan. Orang nak anak, tak dapat anak. Yang tak nak, dapat lepas tu buat macam teddy bear yang dah patah tangan. Weyh, baby tu ada hati kot. Mesti masa time kena buang baby tu rasa sedih sangat kan ?

Seriously, I am a type of person who rarely cries. But when I read this, I cried. I can't imagine how cruel minds can be sometimes. Especially to fragile things. I mean, c'mon. When I see a baby I feel a type of feelings I can't imagine. It's beautiful. Of course, not babies of my own lah kan. Tumpang orang lain punya baby :P hehe.

You see, whoever who did a mistake and happened to pass by this blog. If you ever get pregnant, please please please do not take the easy way out. If you ever deliver the baby, get help. We have lots of help nowadays. It's not the end of the world, there's always room for humans to repent. But it makes you INHUMAN if you ever do STUPID STUPID HEARTLESS thing like what I posted in the link above. Maybe it is hard for the person to think wisely when you have such a great burden on you, but.. consult people who can understand. Though there are people who may not accept you,there are still some who still care. There are tonnes of counselors now in Malaysia, those provided by the government itself, and NGO's. I am majorly talking about women in particular here, because men do not have any effects on them when these kinds of things occur. And for the men, please be responsible and admit your mistakes. You have a share in that problem too. Quit becoming useless persons and start carry out what is supposed to be your responsibility. In the end, I know my writing will not change anything. And people will still dispose of their "evidence" of adultery every single day. And the world will become the worse place to live day by day.

But still... Mistakes should be avoided while can. Before regret becomes the cloud that follows you throughout all your days.

I am emotional.

Reading qissie's entry the other day regarding the cook who get her orders wrong, I am "called" to share my incident two days ago. Qis inspired me for this entry. lol xP.

Anyway, two days ago I was with my civil friends, yaya, hana, eric, nia and hunnyf eating at SS. SS is an eating place just across our campus. Whenever we got tired to eating cafe's food, we usually go to SS for lunch. SS is like the usual hangout spot for atudents here. I usually eat there at least once a week. My classmates adore that place so much, probably because they can smoke openly there.

So, I ordered tomyam and nasi goreng ikan masin, without veggie, mind you! I don't eat vegetables and I know how unhealthy this habit is. Trying to change it soon... lol. The food came, we ate and chatted and laughed and looked at guys. Thats one thing I am VERY good at ;)

After finished eating, I went to the counter to pay. I really really did not have a small change. Neither did hunnyf and nia. We EXPECTED the cashier to have change for BIG dollars. I mean, come on! Why open up a store if you can't provide change to your customers ?! Its up to us how much we wanted to us to pay for our meals.

Okayy, we don't actually mind if she did not have that kind of change,but what really ticked me off was that this lady has no MANNERS!!! She sort of raised her voice at us, demanding for smaller change. Something along this line, "Takkan korang takde duit kecik?! Lain kali bagi lah duit kecik. Ish!" I did not have any smaller notes besides my rm50, so, I just stuck with what I wanted to give her. I just did not give a damn! I mean, pleaseee,at least ask in a mannerly way. We'd understand and we might have asked our friends for smaller notes. But since she asked rudely, I was NOT in the mood of doing her any favor.Plus, it wasn't the first time. There was once she took my order in a way as if I killed her cat or something.Macam nak menengking je. Still, I kept my mouth shut and thought no further. That day, the food court was filled with people. Mostly students from my Uni. And I was not in a good mood. She was rude to us. Wait ! I forgot to mention... She grabbed that rm50 note from my hand,banged the drawers' and mumbled in some malay accent I could not interpret,(which I reckon was the kelantan accent). If you were to be at my place, can you tolerate with such action ? Plus, whats with your disturbed mood and all? I do not know if you can, but I certainly could not hold myself at that moment. She did not even say thank you to us. Bastard!

What happened?

I took my change, smiled with sarcastism and said in a loud voice-enough for everyone else there to look at me, and said "terima kasih" .

"Lain kali, kalau rude macam tu, tak payah niaga. Tak payah bukak kedai. tukar pun takde. Bukan takde tukar,saja malas nak ambik. tak payah berniaga macam tu. orang macam ni pun ada. orang datang makan kedai dia bukan tau nak cakap terima kasih. merampus je keje."

And I did mumbled loud enough for her to hear. I did not care.

My point was made.

One fact. It was not that she did not have the change, she even had the balance if I were to hand her a rm100 notes. She was just lazy to open up her bag, untied the rubber band and took the money out from the plastic.

I do not care if people do regard me as a sarcastic creature with a rude manner, but I just can't stand people being rude to me. Once is okay, twice is tolerable, thrice is just wayyyyy to far for me to handle.

There is a word with 7 letters

There is a word called PRIVACY. In case anyone doesn't understand what it means, it simply means "Get your f---king a** out of people's matter! Stop trying to be a nosy poker! Stop bothering to much about others' life! Take care of your own life!" Simple. Of course, the definiton in dictionaries are far more accurate. But since I am not a walking dictionary nor do i swallow a dictionary, I think that definition will do. At least enough for me to make my point. The point is not everything should be told or shared. And that is the simplest reason for extreme busybody folks to understand. Don't go around telling stories about others. If you are damn free and you have nothing better to do, i suggest, go fight for evolution rather than making people feel irritated and annoyed with what you say. Can't we just take care of ourselves rather than start becoming a "walking cnn"? Hello, everyone has privacy and everyone is entitled to keep what they want to themselves. Get that fellas?? Don't go around trying to find bad stuffs about others when you yourself is worse. I can't understand why some ignorant brats would want to care about me?? As far as I remember, I don't think I did anything to harm them. I am not trying to say that we shouldn't bother about others until someone is dying beside us and we just ignore him! I am saying that there are just some things that we ought to keep within ourselves and others aren't entitled to know. PRIVACY!! I mean, no one has any rights to barge into someone's house and take with them whatever they like. Same goes to privacy.

So, why can't those busybody folks at least take a second and TRY to understand the situation. Go fight for the abused's rights or fight for world peace. I think those are better things to do rather than making baseless assumptions about others...

Therefore, stop bugging! Stop digging private stuffs! Start living like a non-busybody person!




~zaza~